Read on if you want to see pictures of me when I was fat! So. Here’s yet another “weight loss transformation tale” for the internet. I doubt I have anything useful to say,… Continue reading

The answer is no

I woke up at 4:30 yesterday. I stayed in bed in the pitch dark, googling “how to spend the holidays alone.” It was super uplifting. Turns out there are a lot of articles… Continue reading

Picture it

I’m lying here on the couch watching Bachelor in Paradise, because I’m a shit human. But you already knew that, I’m guessing. It’s the wedding montage, where we’re forced to sit through beautiful… Continue reading

Soundtrack, part two

The promised second half of soundtracks, part one… “if music be the food of love, play on,” but music is also the sound of desperation, of a breaking heart, of losing hope, of… Continue reading


Writing has been nearly impossible for the past few weeks. I can’t put my finger on why. Sometimes, it feels like I’ve said everything I can say. Sometimes, I write the same sentences… Continue reading


I haven’t posted for awhile, in part because work has been a dumpster fire (dumpster fire is my phrase of 2017) and in part because I’ve started the same post three times, unable… Continue reading

Expectations (or, dumpster fires)

I don’t need to remind you of the famous quote:  Expectations are the root of all heartache. I would, however, like to remind you that it’s not from Shakespeare. At all. Don’t believe… Continue reading

On this day, part two

To read part one, click here.  God bless Facebook for reminding us what happened on July 11 for the past five years. Isn’t it awesome to see your exes and/or ex-friends pop up?… Continue reading


Ah, yes. Fuckboys. A word that’s been in our lexicon for some time now. What, a few years at least? But it’s been brought back to the forefront–at least of my mind–thanks to… Continue reading

Ordinary people

I keep coming back to the same question, over and over again:  Is it this hard for everyone? Though I’m not feeling as down as I was on Friday, the feeling remains…am I… Continue reading